So Dh's job has never been 95. He usually works nights and the exact hours vary. I have always hated it because I hate being alone at night. However, a month ago he switched to a shift that is from 12:30 pm to 9 pm with him leaving at 11:30 to 10:00. Basically, he is gone all day. I love having him home at night but it sucks not having a break until 10:00pm. He has the opportunity to switch back to over nights or stay on this schedule. I am leaning towards nights because at least I would have some help during the day. Would you rather your dh home at night but gone most of the day or vice versa?