So, DS has been in his same car seat in the same spot in my car since the sheriff helped DH install it before LO was born. It's a rear facing seat on the rear passenger side of the car. We drive a compact.
My friend (who has a sedan) just got into a car wreck this weekend; he has a daughter that is just a few months younger than my DS. Their car seat sits in the middle seat in the back b/c they were concerned about what will happen if someone slams into the side of them.
In the crash, the rear passenger side door was ripped off of his car and they spun out. His daughter, who was in the car seat, was not hurt. There was one person in the rear driver's side seat, and that person had minor injuries from the car seat slamming into her ribs.
I can only imagine what would have happened had this been our car with my DS sitting next to the rear passenger door that was torn off.
So I'm wondering where do you guys keep your car seats if you drive a sedan or compact car?
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Right now, DS's convertible car seat is RF in the passenger side back seat (in a small SUV/crossover). I would prefer the middle, but it won't fit properly that way RFing. The police officer who helped us install his infant seat told me that the best spot is where you can get the correct fit so not to try and make it fit in the middle if it won't install correctly there. But, I am hoping that when we FF, we can actually move the seat to the middle. It would make me more comfortable.
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Middle.
I've always heard 1st: middle, 2nd: behind driver, 3rd: behind passenger. (pending your car's manual says all positions are ok)
The thinking is when you're going to get in a crash you naturally turn yourself away from impact so the passenger side will most likely get more of the impact.
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This is us exactly! I wish our seat would fit in the middle RF but it doesn't. and RF is safer than FF in the middle at this age. When we do FF him we'll most likely put him in the middle.
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Middle is safest - for just this reason. My car doesn't do latch in the middle, and it has a hump that doesn't allow safe placement of the carseat, so we have her on the rear passenger side. Why? Because if I'm parking in the city on the streets (which is where you tend to park, and it's busy), I'm more worried about us being hit while I try to get her out of the driver's side back seat. Both accidents would be bad, and I evaluated the likelihood of being hit while we tried to exit the car as greater than the risk of being in a broadside accident.
She's in the middle in my husband's car.
This, and for people with multiple kids the kid that is the most vulnerable should go in the middle. For example, .if you have two rear facing kids the youngest should be in the middle and the older one on the drivers side. If you have one rear facing and one forward facing the forward facing kid should be in the middle and the rear facing kid on the outside. When they are both forward facing the youngest goes back in the middle.
DS is in the middle but I agree with PP's, you should consult your car manual and choose a position that allows for a good install and strap adjustment every time.
RFing behind drivers seat in my car (middle has fold down armrest and hump so carseat cannot be installed there) RFing in middle of H's car. Both sedans.
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