can your 3 1/2 to 4 yr old pull their blanket back over them in bed? DS seems to be able to do it but has a much larger blanket (he usually sleeps on the floor but sometimes in his bed), but DD is still in a toddler bed (by her choice) and has a toddler bed sized blanket...I get woken up regularly (twice a week on avg sometimes more) at like 3 am by her yelling for me to put her blanket back on her & I'm pretty sick of it. When I ask her to try to put it on herself, she kicks her feet & reaches out one hand and says/whines/cries "I can't reach it!" but really isn't trying to, which is why I am assuming the whole thing is an act and she doesnt want to try. At one point she was asking me to put it on her over & over at bedtime and I was going crazy and tried to patiently sit next to her and walk her through how to grab it & pull it up and she flat out refused. I put my foot down then and told her I would put it on one time when I tuck her in and wouldn't come back (b/c she was intentionally kicking it off & then yelling for me to come back).
Before I start being harder on her and telling her I refuse to help her and that she has to work with me to pull it on herself etc, and dealing w/ the potential huge screaming fit at 3 am I just want to be sure I'm not expecting too much in some way. Thx. I also thought about getting her a bigger blanket, maybe it is easier.