I have seen several moms stated that more kids can make it easier. I was skeptical. Bt last night I watched my niece and nephew, who are 2u2, along wiith my own children. My dd, my niece and nephew were entertaining each other,while all I had to do was feed DS, and he went to sleep. And when he was awake, he was just laughing watching the older children play! I am not comparing this to actually having 4 kids, by no means. But I just can't get over how easier it went. I have been absolutely dreading my SIL asking me to watch her kids.
now, I have no idea how I would ever leave the house. I can barely manage that with my two. But dh has really been on the fence about a third, and this made him realize that DS and DD will be amusing each other once we hae the bay, so e transition won't be so hard.
no real point to this post, I am just impressed that I watched 4 kids under the age of 2.5 by myself, without going insane.