I'm very fortunate to have kind, supportive in-laws who are crazy about their first grandkid.
Having said that, I've been almost constantly annoyed with my MIL since the baby arrived. We live 400 miles away from them, but she's always texting and posting on Facebook and just got a smart phone so there's a lot of regular communication. Plus there's been a family health situation with another relative which has necessitated even more than usual.
My two biggest beefs are that (1) she came and stayed with us for the first week, was completely unhelpful and ended up being a drama queen near the end, which I'm still bitter about, and (2) she's much more emotional than I am and I really just don't have the patience right now for her constant gushing about the "beautiful angel" and how in love she is with the baby.
I'm starting to get territorial and don't want to share photos or updates, partially because she has a history of taking it upon herself to share them on Facebook and partially because I'm a jerk. I realize rationally that these are so minor that they don't even count as problems and I know I need to get over it all but I'm having trouble.
Thoughts, advice and kicks in the pants are welcome.