Someone please talk me off a ledge here...
My mom watches DS on Mondays and Tuesdays. So I called to check in to see how she liked his hair cut. As she is filling me in on the day, she says, he wouldn't eat the salmon for lunch. Then she said "you probably won't like this much but I gave him peanut butter."
I almost jumped through the phone. We think DS may have a food allergy to something - he keeps breaking out in a rash (we have a pediatrician appointment today to follow up on ear infections). And she gave him peanut butter. Without even asking me if it was ok!
I am thisclose to pulling her babysitting privileges. I am willing to pay daycare then have her watching him at this point.
She gives no regards to my parenting decisions. She feels she will do what she wants when he is with her. I am very upset right now.
If I 'let' her continue to watch him, I'm going to have to give her a list of approved and non approved items.
AND he didn't take an afternoon nap today. So its going to be an interesting evening.
Sorry for the rambling rant.