So we've been married for 8 months, together for nearly 7 years, about to buy a home next month and now unexpectedly pregnant. We have our first appointment tomorrow, but it looks like I'm between 9 and 10 weeks. I've feeling good, have to eat every 3 hours or I start to feel nausea but once I eat I'm fine. I have friends who have been/are sick throughout so much of their pregnancies and I'm feeling really lucky that this is going so smooth. So my concern is, husband and I are planning a talk tomorrow after doctor to discuss everything and I know that he feels that we are not ready, not financially stable, and this is not a good time for this to happen. I work, he is a student currently, we will be fine with the house but it may be a little tight starting in January because he will not longer have his GI Bill money to help with our expenses. People have raised children with far less though and I have very supportive parents nearby. I just don't know how to make him feel comfortable with this gigantic change in our lives. I just want to be able to feel happy about this, and so far its been a big secret until we can see the doctor and discuss it.