I don't know about you ladies, but I hate it when people (usually parents with kids older than DS) tell me "It goes by so fast, enjoy every minute!". For some reason I find it incredibly patronizing. Yes, I know it goes by quickly, I don't need you to tell me so. And quite frankly, I don't enjoy every minute, nor do I want to be made to feel guilty for not cherishing every single second of parenthood. End rant.