I really hope I don't get flamed for this and maybe it's not the place to vent... I'm so disappointed with my friend.
I have had BFF A for 20 years. We have had our ups and downs... She has had hard times dealing with personal struggles and taken hiatuses and I just give her space and we pick up where we left off. I say nothing.
While on another hiatus I became close with BFF B. I would venture to say we have a better relationship and mesh a lot more. I told BFF B I was pregnant before I shared with anyone else, she immediately said she wanted to host a shower. It was early, I didn't expect it to come to fruition but it's been all she could think about...she's super excited and an uber planner.
She sensed BFF A was hurt she took the reins because we have been friends far longer and asked if she wanted to help. BFF A accepted, didn't seem enthused about what she was asked to do... Balloons and decorations...but jumped at the chance to do invites.
A few of my friends have asked when my shower is and I have told them the date, which is July 14th. Two days ago BFF A texted me confirming spelling of my married name and asking what last name BFF B goes by, which I thought was strange since I gave her the guest list in April at BFF B's request...then BFF A says "I just ordered invites, they should be here in a couple days." I say nothing.
By the time they get out it'll be 2 weeks away. Much of my guest list are in law enforcement like me and don't have the luxury of taking a day off out of nowhere. It has to be orchestrated in advance...BFF A knows this because she's frustrated that I can't do stuff on a whim because of my sucky schedule. This is a friends shower. The only family I invited are the baby's grandmas and each of our one sisters.
BFF B is upset because BFF A told her 3 weeks ago she had the invitations already. I'm disappointed that she likely lied. BFF B thinks she's done this on purpose as a passive aggressive swipe because she is envious of our friendship.
Just sad all around.