I understand that grandparents want to shower their grandkids with affection...but it makes me really uncomfortable the level of affection that my MIL gives to my son. She always makes sure to kiss him on the lips, even turning his head when he's playing with something to make sure she gets him on the lips rather than just on the cheek. She is also always rubbing and squeezing his legs , underneath his pants, exclaiming "Oh how I love these little legs!!!"
It drives me CRAZY!! I do not come from an affectionate family and my husband's family is incredibly overly affectionate. I have told my husband how uncomfortable it makes me and he just brushes it off saying "oh she's like that with everyone, even her animals" Which is true, but it just makes my blood boil when I see this stuff. She is very sensitive and defensive and I feel like it would cause more of a problem if I brought it up to her. Does anyone else have inlaws who make you uncomfortable?? How do you deal with it without being the b*tchy daugher in law?
Just had to vent...thanks