Ok so this is my second baby, my first will be almost 5 years old when my baby is born. And they have different fathers. I was young when I had DD, at 19. Her father and I Went through a nasty seperation when she was 1.5 years old. He literally threw all if her baby stuff away out of anger because I decided to leave him... So flash forward I am now married to the love of my life and expecting our first child together, this is the first baby in their family. His mother really wants to throw a baby shower, I would never stop her but I don't know how tacky it would look since this is my second. She wants my to give her a list of my friends so she can invite them, so my question is should i try to keep it more their family and mine and leave my friends out since they were already at my DD's shower? What do you think?
edit sorry about grammical errors. On my phone and spell check doesn't always help ;