Soooo many people I know do this, and some very close family members will do so again soon and more than likely try to involve me.. I like the idea of a get together/cookout/celebration after baby is born so people can meet the lo but I just think registering for gifts after 2 is a bit tacky. I don't want to sound like a Scrooge but I'll have to put my foot down and say no when they ask me to participate. I'm not having one for my 3rd or hosting one for someone's 4th lol..am I being to harsh? Opinions please!