I know this may start all kinds of drama and flaming although I hope not. Do you spank your kids? I really don't like spanking DD but her behavior has been so extreme lately that no time out or talking to works and I have spanked her a few times. I always feel bad afterwards but I do not know how to get through to her. My parents spanked me when I was a kid, and mom thinks I should spank DD now. Somebody out their be honest and say you have spanked your kid? If you don't besides time out, firm talking to and taking things away how do you discipline your kids?