I always wanted lots of kids, but whenever I see my sister or SIL, I totally change my mind. I don't know if it's just their kids or if most kids are like that. Do you know of any well behaved families? Do kids act crazy when people are around and get back to themselves when people leave again? I swear, they are just nuts and it makes me really reconsider having another one. My nephew kept walking between DS and his feeding pump so both my SIL and myself were constantly telling him to watch his step so he didn't trip over DS's tube. I don't get worried that other people would pull his tube out completely, but SIL kept reminding her kids not to pull it. It just reiterated the fact that DS is different.
I absolutely love our life with DS, maybe we'll just be one and done.