Mobile: Setting boundaries with my sister.
So she's a 19 and she's pregnant. They don't have a car. No friends here. The boyfriend has family here but they don't care or help. We have no family here. Our parents live a little ways away. I'm the only one her and her bf have.
But I am in my 3rd trimester, I have a toddler and I work 28 hrs a week. Sis has been saying she's gonna move back with my parents. Then she always changes her mind.
I took her grocery shopping the other day and to her first prenatal appt today. With my toddler.. on top of our other errands... Because she is always with me. Luckily LO normally does well. But today I asked her if she was moving back and she said she doesn't know... again.
Since I'm the only one she has.. I told her "If you guys stay, will you be able to get a car? I enjoyed taking you today but I won't always be able to. Especially when my new baby comes."
She still hasn't replied. But I just wanna see if you guys think I handled that ok. I didn't want to sound rude but goodness, I cannot be her taxi right now. I can help where I can. But there will be times when I can't. I guess I just want support in that its ok to say "no" sometimes.