So my DH finally suggested a name that we both love: Melissa. We love that it actually goes decently with our last name (quite a feat), pairs well with our DD's name, and we think the meaning is adorable (that's important to us). The only issue is that it was the name my mom had chosen for one of her babies that was stillborn at 34 weeks. I can see this going both ways...either my mom would see it as an honor to her baby's memory, or something negative. I obviously plan on asking her how she feels about it, but I'd like to know what your thoughts are. How would you feel in my mom's position, and what would you do in mine?