I have three dear friends who are throwing my baby shower. The shower itself is still a ways off (in the early, early planning stages currently), but I just found out, in passing, that they are seriously considering this "great idea" one saw on Pinterest: bring a baby book in lieu of a card.
For reasons I know need not be explained this makes me very, very uncomfortable (I've side-eyed similar invites in the past, and I'm uncomfortable thinking my own shower might incite a similar reaction).
My question for you lovely ladies is how do I tactfully express this to the hostesses without accidentally implying they are tacky? If I just need to butt out as the guest of honor, I can do that too, I just thought/hoped that since plans were in the early stages I might be able to side-step this one. Thank you in advance!