My son started daycare about a month ago, and we are getting a lot of feedback from the daycare about the size of his feedings and the amount of BM that we are bringing. Everytime I pick him up, the afternoon girl makes a comment about how he needs more food. He gets 4 to 4.5 oz bottles. We currently send 1618 oz. of bm and and extra eight oz. Of formula. I started putting the formula in because I was not able to get twenty oz. of bm while pumping at work. I pump constantly at work to get the sixteen to eighteen he is already eating. He is there from 7 to 5 most days and is always bringing one formula bottle home.
I really just don't know what to do? This whole situation is making me feel bad. One for not being able to keep with supply, then for the fact that they are making me feel like I am starving my kid. DH is no help. He just wants to feed the baby and would have a bottle in his mouth all day if he could. Between this and pumping what seems like all day, I want to give up.