We visited a very close friend of mine on Saturday. Her kids and DS1 are all about the same age and DH and her H get along okay too.
At one point, the kids were outside with both of our husbands while i was inside with my friend and DS2. While DH was sitting with her H watching the kids play, DH told me he noticed her H texting a lot, but, every time he texted he would delete the text msg. DH noticed that he had other text msg's saved on his iPhone, so it's not like he deletes all his text msg's, just the ones from this person he was texting.
I think it's shady and want to mention it to my friend. DH told me to stay out of it.
What say you?