Since several of us seem to be going through a crapstorm today, I'll add my misery to the list.
Ever since DH and I started dating, he knew that I wanted to have biological AND at least one adopted child. This was settled and agreed upon during our premarital sessions.
Lately he has been hinting about back tracking on our adoption goal and it's driving me INSANE. I think that going to the RE has ignited his hopes to a ridiculous degree, but he is also eyeing finances -- preferring to do a round or two of IVF if necessary instead of putting the money toward adoption.
This is completely unacceptable to me.
He hasn't come out and actually said he doesn't want adoption, but I feel like he's trying to prime the pump with side comments, etc. I'm afraid to call him out on it because I just might explode -- I can't go through IF treatment AND deal with this level of an argument
We don't argue much, but this one would be one for the history books.
I don't know if there is an answer to this. I guess I just needed to vent.
RUMBERA: 35+ Current DX: Recurrent pregnancy loss (RPL)
DH: 40+ Diabetic, SA excellent.
03/2012: Diagnosis: Low progesterone. Prometrium added,
11/2012: MRI: 3 fibroids. Myomectomy not recommended.
01/2013: Blood work normal. HSG: All clear.
03/2013: Diagnosis: "Unexplained Infertility"
05/2013: Hysteroscopy & D&C. Biopsy: "early polyp formation."
05/2013: Bravelle + Menopur injections.
05/25/13 IUI w/4 follies: BFN.
06/21/13 IUI#2 w/2 follies: BFP.
08/20/13 MC #5 @ 9 weeks. D&E performed, Chromosomes:perfectly normal female. Fibroid the culprit.
10/09/13 Robotic myomectomy - successful removal of 10cm posterior fibroid!
10/10/13 BENCHED for post surgical healing of ute. Getting healthy for Dec IUI.
12/06/13 Bravelle + Menopur + Ganirelix + Ovidrel + IUI + >3 follies = cp
01/06/14 Another IUI round with injects for super-O.
01/17/14 Bravelle + Menopure + Ganirelix + Ovidrel + 3 follies = BFN
01/30/14 Self-benched to get healthy for IVF
03/04/14 Screwed over by insurance. No IVF coverage.
03/12/14 Hail Mary B2B IUI's with 2 follies=BFFN
3/25/14 IVF is the next step. We are exploring doing it overseas in 2015.
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