I have a 2 boys .. one 20mo and the other 2mo. My 20mo gets jealous when I have to deal with the younger one. When I breastfeed the 2mo, my eldest wants to be in my lap and tries to push the baby out of the way. He has hit, bit and also thrown toys at the baby. His fits have progressively gotten worse and he barely listens to us. How do I make this easier on ALL of us? I try to spend any down time (from the baby) with my 20mo old but I am not thinking its enough..
Any suggestions would be great!!