For Mobile: Really bad carseat picture. How to address?
There is this girl I know. She has a LO who is not quite 2. She posted this picture below over the weekend. She's a young single mom and I want to be delicate about how I comment on this but OMG it's so unsafe.
I am not close to this girl. Our families were friends growing up and went on a few vacations together as kids but I haven't seen her since she was pregnant with her LO.
I have written one friend before in a private message to let her know her son's chest clip was in the wrong place. I totally gushed over what a cutie is and what an awesome mom she is and she thanked me for letting her know. I thought about doing it that way this time but I feel like this girl will just ignore my message or get defensive. Should I just comment on the picture?
I've doctored up the picture a bit but as you can see the carseat cover is coming off and the harness straps and chest clip are not on the kid. The title of her pictures was "Sleepy Gurl." This girl's older sister commented she shouldn't be taking pictures and driving and responded with "I'm that good."
ETA: I will probably DD later.
UPDATE: Here's the condensed version.The girl basically made a bunch of excuses. First she said she was stopped at a stop sign to take the picture. Then she said her daughter was throwing a tantrum and then fell asleep and that's why the cover is off. She said she's a single mother and I don't understand how hard it is...I sent her links to Carseat Inspection Stations near her area and offered to help her. I was really polite but unfortunately her end response was unfortunately as I expected and I don't know her lyfe. I'm still glad I said something.