H and I are going out for anniversary tomorrow and I was really looking forward to it because it is our first date night since baby.
I'm going through my closet tonight trying to find something to wear, and literally NOTHING fits. I feel so fat and gross. I have been so proud of myself lately because I'm almost 4 weeks PP and have already lost 34 pounds, which I think is pretty fantastic. This has been without working out since I haven't been cleared for exercise yet.
I just feel really discouraged and gross. And sad. Is being really fit again just not gonna happen?
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This! I've lost almost 35lbs at 6 weeks pp, and even though my butt fits in my old jeans again, they fit weird. I think pregnancy gave me hips because I never had them before. Looks like I can no longer get away with shopping in the juniors section.
I had the same problem when I went on my first post-baby date after DD1. Nothing fit, and I felt frumpy and gross. It does get better. I was just starting to look good in some of my pre-DD1 clothes when I get pregnant with DS. It may take time and a lot of hard work and effort, but it can be done.
I definitely suggest getting some flattering "in-between clothes" for now. It makes such a big difference to your self esteem when you have stuff that fits properly. You don't have to go out and buy a whole new wardrobe...just some basics that will help you feel pretty. It's hard to feel gross and pretty at the same time.