December 2013 Moms

Stop being rude

I read post from other women sometimes and as this being my first pregnancy as well, I will ask questions where the answer is obvious to a mom who already had a baby. Why should someone be rude when replying. Just because the answer is clear to you doesn't mean it's clear to the person that asked.
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Re: Stop being rude

  • tealowltealowl
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  • Telling people how they should and should not behave is rude.

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  • because we're not your personal google?
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  • Stop thinking you can change the vibe of a message board just because you personally don't like it. The reason most of us are "rude" is because most of these questions are asked eleventy billion times a day and most people could find the answer if they just did a little scrolling. Also google. And doctors. 
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  • You are rude for ruining my dinner post with your btching at people you don't know post!!

    i suck

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  • I'm sensing some pregnant women hormones claws coming out. Can't we all be nice? Sheesh....
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  • I think it's rude when someone comments on someone's post saying for ex: "uh, no that's stupid" or "really? You seriously asking that". I understand that ur not google and I don't want u to be, I bug my doctor! But for the women that come one here asking questions, I sure that their just asking bc they don't know and bc they're figuring that hey if I'm going to ask, why not ask a group of wonderful women! And if ur think I'm being rude by posting this, then maybe this post is for u. Maybe ur one of those rude people. If the shoe fits...
  • I blame this on SuperSpecialSnowflake.  She shook her fist at the gods of crazy by asking where all the drama went.
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  • image Soozerella:
    You are rude for ruining my dinner post with your btching at people you don't know post!!


    Not bitching at ppl and if this ruin ur dinner, maybe it wasn't going well in the first place. This is exactly what I'm talking so thank for another example. All I'm saying is that ppl come on here for support, not to feel like something they said was stupid or dumb. Isn't that the point of board? Women supporting other women?
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    I blame this on SuperSpecialSnowflake.  She shook her fist at the gods of crazy by asking where all the drama went.

    It did pick up on cue... 

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  • image VCGolfNYC:
    Telling people how they should and should not behave is rude.


    I'm not telling ppl how to behave bc I can't control that obviously. Just saying that the point of the board is just for women to talk about what's going with their pregnancies, ask questions, and just vent. Not be called dumb or stupid. Even if its a weird question or a question where the answer is obvious.
  • image Mel122013:
    image Soozerella:
    You are rude for ruining my dinner post with your btching at people you don't know post!!
    Not bitching at ppl and if this ruin ur dinner, maybe it wasn't going well in the first place. This is exactly what I'm talking so thank for another example. All I'm saying is that ppl come on here for support, not to feel like something they said was stupid or dumb. Isn't that the point of board? Women supporting other women?

    Being honest and forthright is supporting other women. 


    I carry you with me into the world, into the smell of rain & the words that dance between people & for me, it will always be this way, walking in the light, remembering being alive together. - Brian Andreas 

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    ~ Returned to trying in March - BFP 04.10.2013 - EDD 12.22.2013 ~ TFMC 08.02.13 at 19+ weeks. Everyday I grieve for my little boy.
    ~ Started TTC 12.1.2012 - BFP 12.20.2012~  m/c 1.2.2013
    ~ Surprise BFP 7.26.12 - Lost poppy seed* 8.13.12 <3 ~
  • image Soozerella:
    You are rude for ruining my dinner post with your btching at people you don't know post!!

    Looks like newbs are on the menu tonight... 


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    ~ Started TTC 12.1.2012 - BFP 12.20.2012~  m/c 1.2.2013
    ~ Surprise BFP 7.26.12 - Lost poppy seed* 8.13.12 <3 ~
  • tealowltealowl
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    why not ask a group of wonderful women!..


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  • image Mel122013:
    I think it's rude when someone comments on someone's post saying for ex: "uh, no that's stupid" or "really? You seriously asking that". I understand that ur not google and I don't want u to be, I bug my doctor! But for the women that come one here asking questions, I sure that their just asking bc they don't know and bc they're figuring that hey if I'm going to ask, why not ask a group of wonderful women! And if ur think I'm being rude by posting this, then maybe this post is for u. Maybe ur one of those rude people. If the shoe fits...


    Maybe ur mom is.

    Jeez Louise, if most people bothered scrolling for 5 seconds before posting a question, let alone taking the effort to hit a back button, they would see one of the dozen times their exact question was answered nicely before people just got over of telling the same thing to someone else 6 times a day.

    i suck

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  • I find text speak rude. I deserve to get b!tched at in fully spelled words like you and you're.
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    image Mel122013:
    image Soozerella:
    You are rude for ruining my dinner post with your btching at people you don't know post!!
    Not bitching at ppl and if this ruin ur dinner, maybe it wasn't going well in the first place. This is exactly what I'm talking so thank for another example. All I'm saying is that ppl come on here for support, not to feel like something they said was stupid or dumb. Isn't that the point of board? Women supporting other women?

    Being honest and forthright is supporting other women. 

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  • I absolutely agree. People are very rude tonight and it should end immediately. It is completely immature and uncalled for! Grow up people you're' having babies!
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  • image zou bisou:
    I blame this on SuperSpecialSnowflake.  She shook her fist at the gods of crazy by asking where all the drama went.

    Seriously. 

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  • image thetheisens:
    I find text speak rude. I deserve to get b!tched at in fully spelled words like you and you're.

    YES! Thank you! It was starting to make my eyes bleed. 

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