So last weekend I got in this HUGE fight with DH's brother, brothers wife and her brother. We were having a Bon fire and everyone was drinking, except me, well I took my 11 year old sister over night and "the brother" decided to try to discipline her in the most disrespectful way ... Telling her if she was going to continue to be a disrespectful little brat she could go back to "the camper" she came from. I didn't even know this happened until later when I found her all depressed and she told me. Well lets just say I SAW RED!!!! I went over to him and told him he had no right talking to a flucking 11 year old like that..... Along with every other swear word I knew and told him to get the fluck off my property! I go inside put the kids to bed and go back out and he's still there! So needless to say him, DH's brother and sister in law were all screaming In my face saying I'm a terrible mother and they couldn't believe I have another one on the way..... Continued to attack my character and say any hurtful thing they could think of while my DH just stood there! He didn't say anything! So we were fighting the next couple of days because really what kind of man stands there while his pregnant wife is being attacked my three adults! Really what kind of man. So he was beating himself up saying he was trashed and he's a pretty calm person who doesnt like confrontation anyways so I forgave him. My thing is I feel like he should have to chose between his brother and sister in law that he was never close to or me! Im so angry and hurt not only by what they said but the fact that DH didn't defend me. I have no problem washing my hands with people like that and being done with them but if DH can't then I can't help but feel betrayed by him yet again what should I do and what is reasonable to expect from DH in a situation like that? I'm so torn, please help!