February 2013 Moms

Sex still hurt?

Does sex still hurt for anyone else. I'm going nuts, we have tons f foreplay I use way to much lube and DH is so gentle when entering and there is just nothing that feels good. Plus, I'm just not really in the mood so when we do it I'm sort of forcing myself




Re: Sex still hurt?

  • It's probably more that you are not really feeling the mood for sex that is causing issues.  I wasn't having any problems in that area until this week.  The first time after my period ended (first one of those too) it kind of hurt.  Luckily, DH is really understanding and he took it easy.  Smile

    Good luck to you when you *do* feel up to it!

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  • Yes it still hurts. I'm hyper aware of my episiotomy. BUT I hadn't had an orgasm since December, so I pushed through the pain the second or third try and MAN did I miss that feeling! Now it's worth it to be a little uncomfortable at first in order to climax again, and each time it hurts less and less.
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  • Still hurts and still little desire... 
  • Yes, but it gets a little better each time.  I have to tell myself - as we are getting going and I am dreading it - that the more we do it, the easier it's going to get and the sooner I will stop hurting and it will be enjoyable and desirable again. 



  • We still haven't even tried. There's just no desire. 
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  • It hadn't hurt until we took a hiatus when I was drying up because my boobs hurt so bad. Now we're getting back into the swing if things and I keep forcing myself to get over that initial entry and then it's amazing. I'd just keep at it and basically force yourself to do it. The more you think about it or tense up the worse it will be. Good luck!
  • Yes still hurts for me. If I squeeze the muscles like I am doing a kegel while we are engaged in the act it helps relieve some pain though so. Not sure if its mental or physical but its worth a try!
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  • image krissywave:
    We still haven't even tried. There's just no desire. 

    This makes me feel better.  I offered once and was turned down due to pure exhaustion (he works 12 hr night shifts.)  And once we tried and it just didn't work out, so we snuggled for awhile.  Very disappointing overall, but I know it gets better.


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  • Yup. Still hurts here too. 

    Honestly, I didn't feel up to it until my cycle returned with my son, which was like 9 months PP. I sucked it up for my poor husband's sake, but it's tough. Poor guy. I've been pregnant or breastfeeding for our whole marriage....  

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  • image KTMonson11:
    Still hurts and still little desire... 


    Ditto. Sucks.  

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  • My son is almost 2 and sex still hurts I start to cramp just about everytime we do and we have tried just about everything from lube to foreplay even just cuddling and laughing before hand nothing works. What else is there for us to do?
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