I've come across a similar post on this topic, but wanted to see if anyone could offer a new perspective.
My husband and I parent our baby differently. I feel I am a gentler, more AP type of mom. I don't know what to call his style. He claims she needs to "cry it out" and she's only 4 months old. Admittedly, she hates falling asleep, but I don't feel that's any reason to leave her in her pack-n-play, screaming till she passes out. There are times I will pick her up and hold her till she stops crying, after he's told me to let her be.
This doesn't happen EVERY night. Most nights, DH is asleep early and I'm the one putting DD to sleep at night. He does watch her while I'm at work in the evenings, though, and I can't stand the thought of her being treated this way. My mom often babysits while I'm working instead.
Just wondering how to deal with the situation.