I am so desperate. I'm anti-spanking, but LO is driving me there. My 3 year old gets out of his "big boy bed" 10-15 times before finally falling to sleep every night. I've tried everything except locking him in. And before you suggest returning him to his bed repeatedly without talking, eye contact etc...I've tried it til I'm blue in the face. I've also tried a gate (recommended by the pedi) and he busted thru it. Tried putting his crib back together - hopped right out. I refuse to lay in there until he falls asleep. This has been going on for several months. Please please please help.