Is anyone else who is overdue sick and effing tired of hearing this?! I am also getting REALLY annoyed by the constant IMs/phone calls/texts asking how I am feeling. Seriously, it's 90 degrees in May in the Northeast and I'm nearly a week overdue, and you have the nerve to ask how I'm feeling? It's like people have nothing else to talk to me about other than my unborn baby and why he isn't here yet.
And yes, I UNDERSTAND that the baby will come when he's good and ready. But it doesn't make my discomfort and impatience any less significant. I'm sorry, but it just doesn't. I'm eager to meet him, and I've paid my dues for the past 9 months. It's time.
Grrr.
Sorry. I'm just having a day.
Re: "He'll come when he's good and ready!"
Yes! I get this too. It is so effing frustrating and I want to punch them all in the face! I thought that I was just being b!itchy but I can't help it. I wish they would leave me alone.
Please don't misunderstand me... I am grateful that people care and are excited. It's just really frustrating to be asked "so where's that baby?" Over and over and over again by the same people every single day. That's all. No one wants him here more than me. No one is more excited and eager than me. And no one is as bloated, uncomfortable, sweaty, and miserable as me either... But I digress, I don't want to be misconstrued as an ungrateful ***, at all! Just an overly pregnant, frustrated mama.
I am ok with friends and family, but at work I am feeling like persona non grata now. The vibe I am getting is what are you still doing here? Shouldn't you have had your baby already?
It's kind of lame, I feel like I am no longer welcome.
I am ok with friends and family, but at work I am feeling like persona non grata now. The vibe I am getting is what are you still doing here? Shouldn't you have had your baby already?
It's kind of lame, I feel like I am no longer welcome.