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An Early BFN

After I POAS and got a BFN yesterday at 7dp5dt, I was already preparing for the worst.  This morning I woke up to some spotting and have had slight cramping all day.  I have been on Crinone since ER and I usually don't get AF until after I stop the progesterone.  I was confused and called my RE nurse for some reassurance - something along the lines of "spotting is so common" and "you tested too early".  Instead she said "you're not going to be able to sleep so why don't you come in and we'll do a beta today".  So I did.  Just got the call, BFN.  She wants me to come back in Thursday and test again just in case.  I'm so SAD.  I have a huge deadline tomorrow so I can't leave work and all I want to do is go home and cry. 

Me-31/DH-32, TTC since Aug 2011, HSG/Blood work all normal 3 SAs - results all over the place. DX Unexplained 
3 failed IUIs, IVF #1: 12R/6M/6F, transferred 1 5d blast, no frosties, bfn.   IVF #2:  12R/6M/5F, transferred 1 5dt, 2 frosties, bfn.    Yale EFT test done, mild inflamation - maybe endometrisis?   FET #1: transferred 2 6d blasts, BFP!!!  Beta #1: 606 e2:303, P: 47   Beta #2: 1,817    Beta #3: 8,625




Re: An Early BFN

  • kjf114kjf114
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    I'm so sorry sweetie... don't give up!! xox

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    Me: 28, DH: 30 TTC since March 2012
    PCO & MTHFR Homozygous/Severe MFI (undescended teste & double hernia as baby)

    12/12: 50mg clomid= bfn
    1/13: 100mg clomid= bfn
    2/13: 100mg clomid= bfn 
    6/13: IVF/ICSI (x1 4AA)=BFFN ~49R, 44M, 33F, 14 frosties  OHSS
    8/13: FET #1 (x1 4AA)=First EVER BFP 4dp5dt!! d&c @ 6.5 wks, blighted ovum

    10/13: FET #2 (x2 4AA)= BFP 4dp5dt! Twins!!, perfect u/s then spontaneous m/c @ 5 wks
    11/13= RPL/Karotyping= MTHFR Homozygous c667t
    1/14= FET #3 our 2 year anniversary & hopefully our miracle

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  • I am so sorry! *hugs*
    Me: 31, PCOS (insulin resistance) TTC since 05/11. DH: 31 Great SA after multivitamins and diet improvements. 6/25/12 IUI #1 cancelled. IVF #1 w/ICSI on 8/23/12 CANCELLED due to ovulation. IVF #1.2 BFN 11/6/12. 3 snowbabies. FET #1 12/20/12. Beta 12/31/12-BFFN. FET #2 6/12/13, transferred 2 1A embryos (and there go all my eggs in one basket, literally).HPT on 6/19/13 = BFP! @ 7dp5dt. 6/24/13 Beta 1=659! 6/26/13 Beta 2=1802 6/28/13 Beta 3=2962 P4=14, Will continue progesterone support. U/S on 7/3 revealed TWINS! Premature labor on 10/22. On 10/23/13 Baby Sophie and Baby Gabriel born at 21+5 weeks. They grew wings and flew away from us. May God bless them always. We love you beans!
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  • Ugh I'm so so so sorry!!!!

    Married my best friend on 9.6.11 
    Me 31 DH 29 
    TTC since 12/2011 
    Me - all normal test results 
    DH - SA #1, #2 and #3 - 0% morphology 
    Straight to IVF w/ ICSI 
    April 3 - start date for BC 
    April 18 - tentative start date for injections 
    Tentative IVF dates: ER - 4/27 and ET - 5/3!! DELAYED.
    IVF #1 - May 6 - Estrace
    May 17 - started injections!
    ER and ET end of May!! BFFN :(
    FET #1 - June 28th - BFP!!!! :)
    Beta #1 - 164, Beta #2 - 381
    1st u/s 7/16/13 - 2 sacs with yolks! 1 smaller than the other - Possible Twins?! 
    2nd u/s 7/26/13 - 1 healthy baby with heartbeat of 123bpm! Second sac empty. Next u/s 8/5/13.
    8/5/13 (7w2d) - no heartbeat. Lost our precious LO :-/
    D&C on 8/12/13 - finally neg hcg 2 months later on 10/3/13.
    Saline Songram on 10/10/13 - found polyp :-( post-poned again.
    Hysteroscopy on 10/29/13.
    FET #2 - BFP!!!! :-) 
    Beta #1 - 265, Beta #2 - 692
    12/24-12/28 (6w) - lost our LO (2nd miscarriage in a row)
    RPL panel and Karyotyping; results all normal!
    Started bcp's 1/24/14; saline sonogram 1/30/14 - All clear!!
    IVF #2 02/15/14; ER 02/26/14 - freeze all due to mild OHSS. 
    7 blasts; PGD on all 7 - all 7 normal!!!
    FET #3 4/8/14; BFP!! :-)
    Beta #1 - 235, Beta #2 - 539
    1st u/s - 4/26/14

    ** ALL ARE WELCOMED **

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  • RoeniRoeni
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    So sorry for you to get this news.

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    IVF #1 Jan 1, 2013-Bravelle (150) and Menopur (75)
    Jan 15 Trigger shot, Jan 17 ER, Jan 22 5 day transfer (2 embryos) Feb 1st-3rd + HPT Feb 8th-Beta 1: 2013! Feb 11th-Beta 2: 3100 Feb 15th Beta 3: >5000! Faint heartbeat seen at 5 weeks 4 days! 3/7/13 U/S missed m/c at 8 weeks.

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    FET June 20, 2013 Beta #1@13dpt July 3: 2,476!! 1st U/S 7/9/13 revealed 2 sacs w/ yolks @ 5w3d! U/S #2 July 16 shows 2 heartbeats baby a 111 baby b 117! July 23 U/S-baby a 163 baby b 134 July 25 U/S baby b does not have a heart beat anymore :( 
    Due March 7th, 2014 TEAM BLUE!
    Baby boy was born 3/5/2014!
  • I am so sorry...... ((HUGS))
     36 DH 33 TTC for over 3 years
    First mini-IVF Sept 2011... Only 1 egg! ... BFN
    Switching RE
    IVF#2 May 2012 9 eggs and only 2 sperm, WTH!
    BFN
    IVF #3 March 2013~Tesa with back-up Donor Sperm,Tesa, unsuccessful used DS~ Chemical :(   

    Switching RE's within practice

    2 frosties waiting for us, November 2013!!!!!   Transferred 2 "average" blasts 11/20/2013
    BFP!!!!!!!  Boy/Girl Twins!!!!!! Due 08/08/2014

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  • Sunny BSunny B
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    I'm so sorry :(
    TTC since May 2012
    Me: 31 H: 30
    DX: MFI-Very Low Count
    IVF 1 September Sunflower- cancelled due to Ovarian Cyst
    IVF 1.2 Precious Pumpkin- (Antagonistic Protocol with ICSI)  ER 10/31/13 (18R 16M 11F- 6 blasts to freeze)
    ET delayed due to OHSS 
    FET Summer 2014

    All welcome :)
  • I am so, so sorry.  :(
    Me (37) DH (39); PCOS changed to Unexplained, changed to DOR in 2012 (finally a correct diagnosis!); 
    Started TTC 2009 with RE after 6 months.  
    Clomid + Trigger x2; 
    IUI + Femara x1,
    IUI + Follistim x2;
    IVF #1 (MDL) February 2013- BFN.
    IVF #2 (antagonist) May 2013, First BFP of my life. 
    Identical twin miracle BOYS (!!) headed our way- due date is technically 2/4/14 but c section is scheduled for 1/7! 


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  • So, so sorry. Sending you lots of hugs!!
    TTC #1 since Sept 2011
    Me: 33, DH: 35, DX: PCOS & MFI (low everything)
    IUI #1-3 - Low Post-Wash Counts - All BFNs
    IVF #1 w/ ICSI: Long Lupron Protocol - Freeze-All Cycle due to Severe OHSS
    ER 4/27, 33 Eggs Retrieved, 13 Frosties
    FET #1 6/5, Transferred One Perfect 4AA Blast, HPT BFP @ 6dp5dt
    Beta #1 - 209, Beta #2 - 508, Beta #3 - 1,059
    EDD 2/20/14
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  • I'm so sorry!  {{{hugs}}}
    TTC #1 since November 2011
    Me 32, DH 32
    Dx: Unexplained IF
    RE consult October 2012 
    Clomid and IUI Nov 2012-March 2013 BFNs
    IVF#1 on CD10! April 2013 - ER (27 retrieved, 19 fertilized) 4/21 - ET cancelled due to OHSS. 10 frosties 
    FET#1 w/ one blast May 2013-BFN
    FET #2 w/ one blast July 2013-BFP!!! Beta 9dp5dt: 129 Beta 13dp5dt: 867 Beta 20dp5dt: 13621 Beta 27dp5dt: 53341 U/S #1: 7/31 heartbeat 127 measuring right on time EDD March 20th, 2014
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  • I'm so sorry. ((hugs))
    Me 32 / DH 36
    TTC since 08/2010
    Me: Lap in 2007 due to pelvic pain: Dx mild endo
    Lap in 2011: ovarian cyst and endo removal
    2 Clomid cycles: good response but both BFN
    borderline high anti-cardiolipin IgM Abs - now on baby aspirin
    DH: S/A low all three - unexplained

    IVF/ICSI #1: 06/2012 11R/11M/9F 2dt of one 4-cell embie - BFP,
    beta hell, U/S hell, m/c and D&C in 08/2012
    FET #1: 10/2012 3dt of one 10-cell embie - BFN
    FET #2: 11/2012 2dt of one 2-cell embie - BFN
    FET #3: 01/2013 3dt of one 6-cell embie - BFN
    IVF/ICSI #2: 02/2013 14R/13M/7F 5dt of one blast 2/16 - BFP, beta hell, ectopic

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  • I'm so sorry to hear this. My heart breaks for you. IF sucks ! Try to be positive!
  • rlk2rlk2
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    I am so very sorry.  IF sucks and I know that no words can touch the pain and anguish you are feeling!  Give yourself as much time as you need to grieve but don't give up!  We are all here for you if you need us!  big hugs!
    TTC 2 years- Me and DH (28) with (severely) low sperm count- less than 40 total (last 2 SA showed only 5 and 6 sperm each)
    IVF #1: ER 1/23/13- 4 eggs retrieved, 3 eggs fertilized; ET with 1 embryo 1/28/13 2 frosties beta #1 2/5 was 4.8- beta #2 2/7 3.5; BFN
    FET #1- transferred one beautiful 4AA embie. Praying this is my take home baby. Beta 5/7/13- BFFN!!!
    IVF #2: ER 7/17/13: 6R/3F- transferred 1 blast and 1 10 cell embryo 5dt.   Beta hell.  #1 2.5, #2 2.2- BFFFN! REALLY?
    IVF #3: ER 12/1 and only 2 retrieved.  1 fertilized with ICSI.  Was planning on transferring one fresh and one frozen....fresh was only 14 cells at day 5...CANCELLED and devastated due to 5cm blood filled cyst in ovary and blood in uterus.
    IVF #4: ER week of April 20th!  I can't believe we are at this point already.  Trying with antagonist protocol once again...possibly endometrial scratching.  Hoping to get lots of beautiful embryos and a take home baby(ies)
    Prayers welcomed!!!!  PAIF/SAIF welcome
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  • htn1763htn1763
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    I'm so sorry. IF is just unfair. Hugs. 
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    Me: 33 DH: 32 SA#1 low count (6mil) SA#2- now in IUI range!(30mil) Dx:MFI
    11/1- IUI#1,12/1- IUI#2, 1/2- IUI#3 all BFFN
    IVF#1. Long Lupron.ER 3/8 10R,4M,5F. ET 3/3-one 1AB, 2 frosties 5dp5dt-BFP!! Beta 3/25-794 Beta 3/27- 1794
    First u/s 4/8 saw hb. 4/22 missed mc 8w3d. d&c 4/26
    FET #1- bcp start 6/9. ET 7/12. 2 perfect blasts.5dpt-BFP!! 
    Beta 7/24 -1,239!! Beta 7/26- 2569 Beta 7/29- 7120.  U/S 8/7 hb 118! U/S 8/14 hb 143! U/S 8/20 hb 170. Graduated!! Stick baby stick! 

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  • I am so sorry.  ((Hugs))
    TTC since April 2012 (NT/NP since Sept 2011)
    DH: 29, Severe MFI; grade III varicocele; surgery postponed till KU
    Me: 30, POF, AMH is 1.3, higher than expected!
    Dec'13; Clomid Challenge Test results: FSH was 14.6 on day 10
    IVF/ICSI #1 May '13, Long Lupron, 12 days of stims, ER 5/18, 5R, 3M, 2F, 1 made to 3dt 
    3dt 5/21, 1 12C/poor embryo
    Beta#1 6/3= BFN
    IVF/ICSI #2 July '13, Estradex Protocol (similar to EPP), 14.5 days of stims, ER 7/27, 3R, 3M, 0F
    IVF/ICSI #3 Feb '14, Microdose Lupron Flare protocol, 13.5 days of stims, ER 2/23, 8R, 5M, 5F!
    2/27: 3dt of 2 embryos, 10Bfair/8Cfair; no frosties
    Beta#1 3/10 = BFN
    New RE, New clinic March 2014
    IVF/ICSI #4 May '14, Estrogen Priming Protocol
    All are welcome! 
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  • I'm so sorry. If sucks.
    TTC Since 112010 Naturally. Diagnose:PCOS(ME) + Low Motility(HIM). Started IVF+ICSI Cycle 12312. ER 27 & ET 210 two embies transferred. *BFN 1ST IVF CYCLE.* **Getting as healthy as possible and will try IVFICSI#2 again hopefully in April.** -- HAVE FAITH; LET GO & LET GOD --
  • :::hugs::: I'm so sorry.
    Me: 34, DH: 31 :: TCC since 2/11
    SA: Perfect! CD3  HSG = Blocked Right Tube
    April- Femara 2.5mg + Trigger + IUI = BFN
    May- Femara 5mg = CX - No Response on Left = BFN
    June- Femara 7.5mg + Trigger + IUI = BFN
    August- Lap & Hysteroscopy = Blocked & Partially Blocked Tubes
    September- Femara 5mg = CX - No Response on Left = BFN
    October- 100mg Clomid + Trigger + TI = BFN
    IVF # 1: Stims 11/30 ER 12/12/12! (10R, 10M, 8F, 2T, 6 F) :: Beta #1- 176  c/p @ 4w4d
    FET #1 February 26th :: Lost 4 to Thaw, Transferred 2 = BFFN
    IVF # 2 Stims 5/10 ER 5/21 (15R, 13M, 13F, 2T, 7F- 6d3 & 1d5) :: Beta # 1- 15 c/p @ 4w
    FET #2 Cancelled, Right Tube Developed a Hydro
    8/28 Hydro & Scar Tissue Removed  Cleared for FET
    FET #2.2 Scheduled for September 20th
    2 Thawed, 2 Transferred! Beta #1- 96, Beta #2 906! :: EDD June 10th

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