Today we found out we are having a boy. When we had DS1 we named him the middle names of my DH and my DH's father. For DS2 we are naming him after both of our grandfather's.
When my Mother asked me today what the name would be she got really mad that I am not naming him after her boyfriend. My Mother and her boyfriend have been together many years, I think maybe 15 years or more so he was around since my teenage years. However, he is not related to me and I feel no obligation to include him whatsoever. I honestly find my Mother a little insane to even suggest it yet alone make such a fuss about it. Am I wrong? I mean maybe I am too involved in my own emotions to see her point of view.
I would love some feedback. I have no intention of changing DS2 name but I would like to hear some opinions.