My baby boy is 3 months old. I have gone back to work part time, and my MIL is watching him 2 times/week. She is the nicest little Greek woman, but is very set in her ways. I had told her my one request was she never puts a blanket in the crib when the baby is taking a nap. Yesterday I found a blanket in the crib, and asked my husband about it. He said his mom asked him not to tell me that she was using a blanket on him because I wouldn't let her babysit anymore. I didn't think it was that much of a request, but she thinks I am just being a paranoid first-time mom. She put blankets on her kids, and they are still alive... blah blah (40 years ago!) I do not want to worry all day at work about this. I am planning on buying a camera that connects to my phone today. I put a GIANT note in the baby's room that says- NO BLANKETS ALLOWED! Thank You. I don't know what else I should do to help her understand that this is a worldwide rule- not just my rule. Any suggestions?