I just turned 30, Boys just turned 2, Khloe is about to turn 4.. DH & I are thinking now or never.. & our biggest fear is the first 6 months.. lol. We don't want the kids later in our 30's or 40's because we don't want them that spread out. No offense, there are beautiful mommies in their 40's, I just want to be in a different stage at that point in my life. With 3 little ones now, I want to be in the soccer game, girl scouts, camping, etc. stage with all of my kids closer in age. We were a little traumatized by the infant stage with the twins because they had colic, thrush, jaundice, trouble latching, trouble with formula, a week in NICU, every cold that went around.. I guess I'm just looking for opinions.