so I gave birth just short of three weeks ago. I had an epidural, had to have a forceps delivery and an episiotomy which went basically right through to my anus. I noticed a week ago the stitches had all come out. I had my doctor look at them and they said the wound would heal itself-heal itself?!? I am freaking out about it just somehow fusing itself together?
on top of this.... I have since giving birth lost control of my bowel movements and have been unfortunately pooping my pants almost each day. I can't even feel it coming on, it just feels like wind and then it's all soft and come through without me realising.
i am absolutely terrified I am never going to be normal again, is there anyone out there who has experienced similar problems that can share their story-it would be greatly appreciated.