Well, I'm trying not to turn into Debbie downer or get too bummed out :(...but I am definitely a bit sad and disappointed after our appointment today. I had my uterine cavity check (hysteroscopy) post D&E and somehow I grew an adhesion that has to be removed before we can go forward with a FET. You could see it pretty clearly and I an understand how that can't be in there - it lowers implantation rates and increases miscarriage rates.
So at a minimum, we will be delayed about 6 weeks on top of the 4 away from the FET we originally had planned on June 11. I'm assuming it'll probably be 10-12 weeks from now which feels like forever. I know it's not...but I feel like someone just moved the finish line and I was pacing nicely for 4 weeks from now and now I have to pace myself for 10-12 weeks from now.
On the upside, I have a little more time to shed a few pounds, I can relax a little and enjoy the summer I guess. I just really wanted to be pregnant before my EDD for our loss baby came on Aug 29th. It could still happen. But I'm starting to feel discouraged and unlucky.
Sorry, I know many of you have gone through so much more - years of this - but I guess this is just hitting me hard for some reason. :( Thanks for listening!
FET #3 is December 2nd - our last frosty - please be our take-home baby!
Together 7 years and legally married in 2013!
Me: 42 (Excited to carry!) DW: 44
June 2012: First RE appt.due to age + plan to use DS
Sept 2012: Both fallopian tubes removed due to blockage
Dec 2012: Donor Egg/Donor Sperm IVF Cycle - BFP! EDD 8/29/13
Mar 15 2013: Missed miscarriage at 15w4d (discovered at 16w1d via home Doppler)
Mar 22 2013: D&E. Tests showed death due to (fluke) blood clot in umbilical cord. :(
May 24 2013: Hysterscopy to remove uterine adhesion post D&E.
July 18, 2013: FET #1 - Beta 1 8dp6dt: 40; Beta 2 11dp6dt dropped to 19 :(
September 23, 2013: FET #2 - BFN :(
Last FET #3 - scheduled for 12/2/13.
We live in Seattle and used SRM for our Donor Egg IVF cycle.