I confronted DH tonight about a few things on my mind lately.
His dog. If he isnt going to make her a priority, then he needs to find a family that will.
His time with B. He chooses to spend the little time in the evenings while B is awake doing other things. Working outside, going to his fire dept meetings, being on the computer/phone. Weekends are the same. He chooses other activities.
His guilt trips. He used to guilt trip me frequently about not getting to see B, how I get to stay home...blah blah. While now that I am contributing financially to the household, no more guilt trips. I will not be guilted for being a mom.
It went as well as I expected it to. He shut down and hasn't spoken more than a few words to me. This is how it always goes when we have an arguement, and why I avoid them. He extra sucky thing was he called me today and talked excitedly about taking me out Saturday for Mothers day. He hasn't mentioned it all night (after saying we would talk more after he got home from work). I have a feeling we will not be going out.
Ps. I didn't bring up the name change debate tonight. I figured we went over enough already lol
I need a drink.