Pregnant after a Loss

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I know I'm not due for another 8 days, but my appointment today didn't go as expected. I could swear I lost my MP this morning so I was excited to get checked and find out how dilated I am. Well...I'm still long, firm and closed. He's giving me a 60 to 70 percent chance of having a c/s. If this happens I will go to a different hospital than I planned to go to because apparently the OR at the one 5 min from my house has been very busy. I go back to the doc on Monday and am hoping for some sort of progress. We'll be scheduling an induction when I go. I'm a bit overwhelmed and sad. I know the goal is to get her here healthy and safe and that will always be my goal, but I don't like how everything is changing at the last minute.
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  • I'm sending you tons of "Hurry up and dilate, cervix!" dust

    That would bug me sooo bad if they started changing everything on me that close to delivery. Hang in there. Either way, you'll have a beautiful rainbow baby in your arms soon. And I bet the second you see her face, none of this other stuff will matter. Right Hug

    I hope you get to stick with your birth plan!

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  • Come on baby Delino, everyone wants to meet you, start moving!

    I hope things start on their own for you!

    Have you tried all the old tricks - spicy food, sex and all that?

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  • delinodelino
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    image BootsOrHearts:
    Have you tried all the old tricks spicy food, sex and all that?
    I've tried lunges and EPO. I'm going to try to seduce DH, but my whale figure doesn't make me feel very attractive. I actually cried thinking of how awful I'll feel to get shot down since I already feel so insecure.
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  • ((hugs)) That would mess with my head too that they are changing the plan on you.  I hope that your body gets the message and gets in gear soon! 
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  • Prayers that you get to follow your birth plan and all goes smoothly and well!

     

    FX that you also get "lucky" tonight Wink

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  • Sending you tons of progress dust!!
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    Hang in there my friend.  You will be holding Baby D in your arms soon.  Sending you lots and lots of progress dust and much love.

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  • Sending positive vibes your way, lady! I hope things change and your LO comes soon.

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  • Truck loads of progress dust coming your way!!!!!
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  • Good luck Hun! I hope things start progressing soon!
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  • image delino:
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    Have you tried all the old tricks spicy food, sex and all that?
    I've tried lunges and EPO. I'm going to try to seduce DH, but my whale figure doesn't make me feel very attractive. I actually cried thinking of how awful I'll feel to get shot down since I already feel so insecure.

    Hugs D!  I have so been there.  The end of pregnancy is the hardest.  If he doesn't shoot you down, which I don't think he will, just be prepared for it to be very awkward.  But you're doing it for the baby not for romance.  Kind of like baby making sex but it a whole new way, lol.  

    On another note, with my first pregnancy, I was very high and not dilated at all.  I was eventually induced.  The induction was successful for me once they broke my water.  I was so ready for them to tell me I needed a c-section.  Hopefully you will have success like me and not need one. 


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  • Keeping my FX for you!  Things can progress in a very short amount of time Big Smile

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    Sorry to hear that the plan has changed, but hoping that baby decides to come on her own very soon!
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    Your choice of colors for progress dust!

    I know that it hurts to have your plans change at the last minute, especially after all it has taken to get her to this point.  Just breathe and keep doing what you're doing!  Love you lady and hope that your follow up goes better!

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    Hope it works out like you wished.  Praying for good progress.

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  • I was barely dilated when I lost my mucus plug and the next day my water broke and 12h later I was 3. It can all change quickly! Lots of dust headed your way!
  • Sending you lots of progress dust!! 


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  • Oh delino! Tons of dust! The end is soooooo very hard. Hang in there, she will be here soon!! Have they talked about a foley bulb? Mine worked wonders!

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  • Praying for lots of progress hun! As pp's said things can change quickly. I hope that's the case for you. I was getting desperate towards the end and wanted to avoid induction at all costs so I even started looking at places that do acupuncture. Fortunately nipple stimulation worked and I didn't need to. Anyhow lots of progress dust for you!
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    Hang in there!! These last few days are soooo hard!! And don't get discouraged...long, firm and closed means nothing in this game!! I was all those things with baby #2 at one of my appointments and went into labor 3 days later. Baby will be here very soon! xoxo 
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  • Sending you tons of "move along, baby, move along!!" dust!!  I hope things start progressing soon and you're able to stick to your plan! :)
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  • Lots of baby eviction dust coming your way.

    PS. Lots of cervix envy over here. Wishing mine was more like yours.

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  • nola78nola78
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    I'm sending you lots of labor progress dust and keeping my FX that you are able to avoid a c section.
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  • Sending dilation dust! Have lots and lots if sex!!
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  • delinodelino
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    Thanks ladies! FX we see some progress soon!
    3 ectopic pregnancies (EDD's 1/30/12-tube removed, 6/2/12-methotrexate and 10/2/12-methotrexate)
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