Ladies, I need help. I'm not the most organized person in the world. What are your cleaning/saturday morning routines? I work full time (8:30am to 5:00pm, home by 5:45pm) and dedicate the rest of my time to my LO and as best as I can to my hubby. He doesn't help AT ALL in the kitchen and relies on me for ALL of the cooking, grocery shopping, bathing the LO etc. I feel like I can't manage to get much else done. And because of his somewhat sheltered youth, he relies on me to make weekend plans etc. When he doesn't get out, I have to hear yet another rant on how board (sp?) he is -- then the convos start to spiral and I am left to feel that I am not enough at times. I'm not his entertainment, nor am I responsible for planning it. He doesn't have any friends and I can't make time for mine. I know this is not very clear, but I'm frustrated. Feel like I have ADD or something. What is your laundry routine? Bathroom cleaning? Cooking? When do you find time for yourself? I can't please everyone all the time, feel like I'm being spread too thin at times. Being taken for granted. I'm not trying to be the social butterfly I once was, I'm good with where I am. Just having a hard time keeping things in order while trying not to strangle my dear hubby. Sometimes I feel because he makes more money, I should just go with the program... :/ End rant.
P.S. He's an educator and ALWAYS has a comeback or answer for everything. He can't break out of teacher mode sometimes, that's what pisses me off the most. I can't talk to him about certain things because I can't always get my thoughts together. I don't event want to bother... Other times, everything is peachy for the most part. This is not something at all thats worth leaving, I just think he can be such a jerk at times. He has the never to complain if food was a little under-seasoned, when he can't even boil water. Ok, end rant for real this time.