I know it's not kosher to invite to showers via FB, that it's not kosher for the MTB to talk about it on FB, but what about pics afterward?
I got to thinking about this last night when a good friend commented on a pic of me "Wow! You look amazing! When's the shower?" I messaged her privately the date and location and that she can expect an invite in x number of weeks.
I also said "I didn't want to say anything publicly because I can't invite everyone from FB." Maybe I'm in my own head too much, but what about people mentioning the shower the day of, tagging photos and status updates? Of course one could restrict tags, etc, but I was curious what modern etiquette says about this.
Another friend had a shower and posted pics and I enjoyed looking at them, wasn't offended to have not been invited... I just don't know where general consensus stands on this.