A friend of mine has been struggle with IF for a couple years now. Right after I found out I was pregnant she was doing an IVF cycle. I was praying it would take so I waited to tell her we are pregnant. Well it didn't take and I am 8 wks along now. How do I tell her. I just don't want her to feel bad but I also don't want her to feel bad that I am hiding it from her. I think she may be doing another cycle of IVF in the next month so do I just wait and see?