GTKY - What age?

mytinc

Spinning off from the Plan B being made available to 15 year olds debate going on in OU today... (and avoiding that topic here please!!) I'm curious. 

Since obviously nobody on here is a virgin... How old were you the first time?  And where were you? 

mytinc

For me: 14 and a half.  Outside in a park after leaving a football game freshman year of high school.

eco+ri

I was in college. 19, with DH.

kmcd23

19, freshman year of college, with my first serious relationship.

caden1206

16, at my boyfriend's apartment that was 19.  He was responsible though because he took me to Planned Parenthood the next day and I got a script for BC and paid for everything.

c-elizabethf

20 with DH at his house.

MomlovesEloise

I was 17. In my bedroom the summer before college. 

botanicalbliss

 I was 20, it was with DH (he was my first and only), in my apartment.  I'm boring. 

MeeksandMads

19, freshman in college, at my boyfriend's apartment. On a pullout couch ouch!

motang

I was 21 with my husband in his apartment while we were in college. He's my only. 

drhibbard

16.  In a bed.  At a memorial day party.

There's some well behaved ladies here.  I guess I'll keep quiet on my slutty college years!

daniellelea1985

19, college with my BF on valentines day

michelle04us

2 weeks before my 17th birthday. My boyfriend paid for a hotel and did the whole flowers/candles thing because it was his first time as well and he wanted it to be special for both of us. 

 

Brooky11209

14 and a half on my boyfriends couch, obviously no parents home.:p he's my one and only were still together but not married yet

Thankful0124

18 with DH at a friend's party. 

CNJ4EVA

18 with DH. He's my one and only as well. It was in his father's basement.

Moosemonkey

I was 19, with my first serious boyfriend, in his bedroom.

MrsJ723

17, HS boyfriend in his room. His parents weren't home.

rpalen29

just turned 14. In the mall. We snuck into one of the closed/abandoned stores. 

I was in 8th grade.

On the topic of Plan B, I think it should be available to anyone over the age of 11 or 12. Why is the cut off 15?

I actually knew many girls who got pregnant BEFORE they were 15. Most of them were 14, but I knew a girl in 6th grade who got pregnant. She was 12.

Also, if your getting Plan B and underage, or under the age of driving, how do they identify themselves as being at least 15? I would lie through my teeth, and say I was 15...

sorry, I started the debate!! 

Kzhowell

17, on a country club golf course while getting my butt munched on by mosquitoes.

kryshy123

16 with my first love. We grew up together every summer. We had cabins on the same lake and we decided we wanted to be each others firsts. So went over to my cabin while everyone was gone and it was a beautiful night....NOT! It was horrible lol and he turned out to be a complete douche

mytinc

kryshy123:

16 with my first love. We grew up together every summer. We had cabins on the same lake and we decided we wanted to be each others firsts. So went over to my cabin while everyone was gone and it was a beautiful night....NOT! It was horrible lol and he turned out to be a complete douche

Sorry, this made me laugh.  Boys at that age often are douches though. 

gradmommy13

I was a month shy of being 20 with my DH. It was at his apartment. 

gradmommy13

botanicalbliss:

 I was 20, it was with DH (he was my first and only), in my apartment.  I'm boring. 

Not boring at all! My husband is also my first and only! He was actually my first kiss, too! I was 19 when we first kissed  

Blueyed228

 18 in my dorm room with my BF

Bon Jovi "Bed of Roses" was on the radio lol.

miraclemarie

I was 16 and was at my bf's house. We were each other's first and we both cried afterwards. We stayed together for 4/5 years and then broke up.

stkmw02

Just after my 14th birthday, in my bed, with my 18 year old boyfriend.  Unfortunately, not by my choice.  And oddly enough, he is now a minister.

So, I count my real "first time" as being when I was 16, in my 18 year old boyfriend's bed (in a house he owned, since he graduated at 16 and was putting himself through college while working full-time).  It was totally romantic and perfect.. and definitely helped me understand that sex can be awesome.

1and1is3

I count my real first as the time with my DH (rape doesnt count imo).

I was 22 and it was in the back seat of my car lol.  

1and1is3

GradMommyToBe:

botanicalbliss:

 I was 20, it was with DH (he was my first and only), in my apartment.  I'm boring. 

Not boring at all! My husband is also my first and only! He was actually my first kiss, too! I was 19 when we first kissed  

I was my husband's first kiss as well   He wasn't mine though. I wish he were though because he is a great kisser

TX-Bride

1and1is3:

I count my real first as the time with my DH (rape doesnt count imo).

I was 22 and it was in the back seat of my car lol.  

Sorry what you had to go thru!!

pnutg

cgiles120812:

20 with DH at his house.

Same here!

pnutg

1and1is3:

GradMommyToBe:

botanicalbliss:

 I was 20, it was with DH (he was my first and only), in my apartment.  I'm boring. 

Not boring at all! My husband is also my first and only! He was actually my first kiss, too! I was 19 when we first kissed  

I was my husband's first kiss as well   He wasn't mine though. I wish he were though because he is a great kisser

My husband was my first kiss at 19 as well! Although I definitely was not his.

Nora1985

16 with my Dh in his basement in high school. : my one and only too

centralperk

I was 17 it was in my bf bedroom while he's parents were out of town. Let's just say I learned the importance of lube and enough foreplay.

c-elizabethf

GradMommyToBe:

botanicalbliss:

 I was 20, it was with DH (he was my first and only), in my apartment.  I'm boring. 

Not boring at all! My husband is also my first and only! He was actually my first kiss, too! I was 19 when we first kissed  

Same here (: 

LadyDelilah

My wedding night with my first husband, I was 18 and that was the worst year of my life. But after that the first time with a boyfriend was my college boyfriend in his room back home on spring break.

metzy144

I was 18, with my boyfriend of two years. We were on a trip after high school graduation.

1and1is3

TX-Bride:

1and1is3:

I count my real first as the time with my DH (rape doesnt count imo).

I was 22 and it was in the back seat of my car lol.  

Sorry what you had to go thru!!

It made me appreciate my husband a whole lot! So I really can't complain  

slweaver0626

I was a 17 yr old high school senior, he was a 19 yr old college freshman (both virgins) and it was in his dorm room.

ALP514

17, at my first serious boyfriend's house. 

star510

Three days before my 27th birthday less than an hour after we said "I do" at home in his (now our) bed.  He was my first for everything (first date, first kiss), but he had been with many before me.