DH and I are expecting in Nov. (and ultrasound in 2 days... yay!), and because we live in India - and all our family in the US and Canada - we're doing a lot of our legwork and research to find out what stuff we will really want and need shipped, versus what we can do/get here. My MIL will be coming out in Dec. or Jan., and I know I can ask her to bring some things out with her, but I'm wondering - what are your can't-live-withouts for the first 3 months, that you've found?
(Aside from things like 'clothing', 'diapers', 'bottles/breast pump', 'place to sleep' and some of that really obvious basic stuff).