So I am due Aug 20, and my mom was planning on having my shower July 20. I mentioned to her it's cutting it a little close, and she is totally fine with moving up the date.
However, we cannot do it the previous weekend, MIL and SIL will be away, and the weekend before that is 4th of July weekend.
So, the weekend before that is June 29, and SIL is having a sort of birthday party she is actually having many birthday events over every weekend in June... Don't get me started
Would it be rude to change it to June 29, or should I keep the original date of July 20? Only 4 weeks before due date...