TTC After a Loss 6 Months+

Hello, may I join you?

Hi everyone.  I was wondering if I may join you over here?

Yesterday marked 7 months since we lost our son at 20 weeks.  I started lurking on TTCAL about a week later and have been an active poster for just over six months now. 

I'm 41 and DH is 42.  I went through IVF with my first husband which resulted in a BFN and a diagnosis of "get a dog" because you can't get pg. Said dog is in my sig.  DH and I have were married in July 2011 and got a very surprising BFP the following June.  After having the most boring pg ever, I went into PTL a week after our anatomy scan.  The PTL was blamed on a placental abruption.  We were cleared to TTC after one cycle and got a BFP two cycles after that.  That ended in a CP that basically let us know that I actually could get pg again.  That loss was followed by another BFP, wonky-beta hell and a loss at 9 weeks.  

I have an amazing OB, MFM, and RE who are all trying to work on a plan going forward.  I started RPL testing yesterday and am waiting for the results.  I'm on CD1 and will have more testing done this week (as soon as I call the RE's nurse) and an HSG next week.

On the non-TTCAL side:   I graduate from law school on 5/18 and am taking the Bar in AZ in July.  DH and I will be relocating to TN in September due to his job and I will take the TN Bar in February. Apparently, I am a gluten for punishment. Smile

Thank you for reading this and I come with goodies:

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Zachary Donald born 9/22/2012 at 20 weeks. You will forever be in our heart.
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BFP#1 06/08/2012 EDD 02/07/2013, born 09/22/2012 PTL due to placental abruption
BFP#2 12/21/2012 EDD 08/27/2013, CP@4w6d
BFP#3 01/21/2013 EDD 10/02/2013, M/C 02/26/2013

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Re: Hello, may I join you?

  • morkmork
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    Totally butting in just to say GL on the Bar! I graduated from law school in AZ and took the AZ Bar as well. Unfortunately, I still live here. :P
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    ::::siggy::::: Totally butting in just to say GL on the Bar! I graduated from law school in AZ and took the AZ Bar as well. Unfortunately, I still live here. :P

    Thank you! I'm a little bit nervous about moving out of AZ right after graduation.  My network in TN is zero. 


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    Zachary Donald born 9/22/2012 at 20 weeks. You will forever be in our heart.
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    A miracle is what seems impossible but happens anyways
    BFP#1 06/08/2012 EDD 02/07/2013, born 09/22/2012 PTL due to placental abruption
    BFP#2 12/21/2012 EDD 08/27/2013, CP@4w6d
    BFP#3 01/21/2013 EDD 10/02/2013, M/C 02/26/2013

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  • I'm so sorry you made it over here but welcome. Thanks for the goodies!
    TTC since 4/28/07
    Diagnosed w/ endometriosis 12/2010 Laproscopic surgery & 6 months of Lupron
    BFP 12/17/2011,EDD 8/23/12,ectopic discovered 12/29/11 at 6 weeks recieved methotrexate
    Dec '12 HSG & ultrasound showed abnormalities & more endo. Laproscopic surgery in January '13 showed significant damage & scar tissue from Endo. IVF is our best shot to concieve our rainbow.

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    I am so sorry you find the need to move to 6+, I hope that your stay is short. 

    CONGRATS on graduation and good luck with the bar!

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  • I'm sorry you have to be here, but welcome to this side.

    I can't believe you'll be done in a few short weeks!!! You and EKGibs both. So excited for both of you!

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    BFP#2 2/27/13. Empty sac confirmed 3/20/13. Mifepristone + cytotec.
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    Welcome, bug (((hugs))). 

    Good luck with the rest of your schooling! You are so close to being finished! 

    Married my own Prince at Walt Disney World Resort on September 9th, 2010 
    BFP#1 - 25/Aug/12 - EDD 2/May/13 - M/C - 08/Sept/12 - 6w2d - Never in my arms, forever in my heart <3
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    I'm sorry you find yourself on this side of the board, but welcome. These ladies are wonderful.

    Congratulations on graduation and good luck on the bar! 

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    Patiently waiting for my lovelies on TTCAL to come join me.


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    BFP#2 10/19/2012 EDD 6/30/2013 Muppet delivered 6/28/2013

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  • Thank you ladies for the warm welcome! I am in major countdown mode and ready for school to be over.


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    Zachary Donald born 9/22/2012 at 20 weeks. You will forever be in our heart.
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    A miracle is what seems impossible but happens anyways
    BFP#1 06/08/2012 EDD 02/07/2013, born 09/22/2012 PTL due to placental abruption
    BFP#2 12/21/2012 EDD 08/27/2013, CP@4w6d
    BFP#3 01/21/2013 EDD 10/02/2013, M/C 02/26/2013

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  • Welcome, bug. Although I'm sorry you're over here, I always love your company.
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    "As long as I live you will live. As long as I live you will be loved."

    BFP#1 3/31/12 (5 weeks) EDD 12/1/12,No HB 6/6/12 (14 weeks 4 days), D&C 6/11/12 (15 weeks 2 days)*Arabella Ann*

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  • I'm so sorry you have to be here hon but welcome and ((((hugs)))).  Good luck on the bar as well!  I've never taken the AZ or TN ones but remember the LA one being a beast. I'll be cheering for ya to knock 'em both out! 
    BFP #1:  8/10/11 EDD: 4/9/12 Natural miscarriage @ 7 weeks: 8/20/11
    BFP #2: 8/31/12 EDD: 5/18/13 Chemical pregnancy: 9/4/12
    BFP #3:  5/17/13  EDD: 1/24/14 Loss at 5 weeks: 5/29/13

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    Lots of testing, all clear with the exception of compound heterozygous for the MTHFR mutation. 

    Cycle 1: Femara, trigger shot, Bravelle added due to slow response = BFN
    Cycle 2: Cancelled due to two cysts =(
    Cycle 3: Femara, Bravelle, trigger shot and IUI = BFP then loss #3
    Cycle 4: Femara, Follistim, trigger shot and IUI = BFP!  EDD: 6/7/14

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  • I'm so sorry you find yourself over here. Welcome

    TTC since April 2010
    BFP #1 – March 2011, missed m/c April 2011
    BFP #2 – October 2011, m/c November 2011
    Surprise BFP #3 – December 2011, diagnosed as cornual, terminated January 2012
    BFP #4 – June 2012, m/c July 2012
    Diagnosed with bicornuate ute and MTHR gene mutation
    BFP #5 – October 2012, missed m/c November 2012
    BFP #6 – January 2013, m/c March 2013
    No longer TTC. Diagnosis: Hostile ute. Heartbroken and bitter. Pursuing surrogacy.
    June 2013 - Carrier found! Could this really happen?!
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    Welcome! I'm sorry you have to be here.

    *huge hugs*

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    TTC since January, 2011 | Me: 40, DH: 38 |DX: DOR and Uterine Fibroids | Natural BFP#1 January 31, 2012 | Harrison Gray born sleeping @ 18w6d on May 11, 2012 | Three surgeries and 26 fibroids later. . . | Natural cycle = BFN | 2 medicated cycles = BFN | IUI#1 = BFN | IUI#2 = Cancelled due to poor response | IVF#1=BFP#2 EDD 10/29/13, C/P 2/25/13, Bye little Ish | Natural cycle = BFP#3, Beta 1=1250, Beta 2=2230, EDD 12/21/13, Baby Boots born 11/23/13 My rainbow baby! |

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    Sorry your here, these woman are amazing.

    Good luck on the bar!
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  • (((hugs))) Hey bug, sorry to see you here, but welcome. And thanks for the wine!

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  • Sorry you find yourself here but welcome!
    BFP#1 02/19/12 missed mc 03/30/12 1st D&C 05/16/12 2nd D&C 08/17/12 
    BFP #2 06/26/13 EDD 2/26/14 Hoping for my rainbow baby!
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