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Positive Thoughts Please

We recently (6 weeks ago) were placed with an infant foster child, Butter Bean.  Within the past two weeks the case has flipped upside down.  While we were prepared for the roller coaster ride that is foster care, we never expected things to be this complicated this quickly.  We head back to court on Wednesday and could use any positive thoughts/prayers/vibes/anything.  We aren't sharing any details (although I have really wanted to vent to you guys about this craziness) but are just hoping that Butter Bean's best interest will be the top priority. 

I'll let you know how things turn out on Wednesday in a super vague conclusion.  I'm thinking of going all Ebert and Roeper with the two thumbs rating scale.  Let's up for two thumbs up!

Re: Positive Thoughts Please

  • Praying for you guys!

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  • You got it. Here's hoping for two thumbs up high for Butter Bean.
  • I was wondering how you were doing since the blog updates had been so scarce. T&P for ButterBean's court hearing- and that as you said, that ButterBean's needs and best interests are kept at the forefront of any decisions made. 

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    IUI #2 (3/14) 27 days of Follistim 50/75/100/150/200 (5 follies) + Lurpon+ IUI (12.5m motile) = BFN
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    Next Steps: Giving my doctor one more shot in January

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  • Praying for you and Butter Bean!

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    So hoping all goes well and you tell us on Wednesday that there are 6 thumbs up! (you, dh and bb)
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  • I hope everything goes in BB's best interest on Wednesday. Good luck!
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  • T&P with you guys and BB.

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  • Sending positive thoughts your way!! Was wondering where you have ben, and thinking about you.  Hoping for the bst outcome for everyone.
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  • image NariaDreaming:
    I was wondering how you were doing since the blog updates had been so scarce. T&P for ButterBean's court he
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    So hoping all goes well and you tell us on Wednesday that there are 6 thumbs up! (you, dh and bb)
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  • Sending good thoughts your way!
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  • Sending positive thoughts. Yes Yes Keep us posted.....
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  • Praying for a good update! The blog was starting to worry me.
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  • I will always pray for a child in need that the thing that's best for them will happen. Prayers sent.

  • Praying for y'all today

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    New to the 3T board? *~*~*~*Click HERE first!*~*~*~*

    Losing the fight against my ovaries  36 37 months and counting

    Me: PCOS secondary to Hashimoto's (thyroid), endometrial hyperplasia, and a blocked tube

     DH-low motility and poor morphology

    My long and convoluted 7 month testing history can be found HERE

    Short story: if you've been trying for over a year, go straight to an RE. Don't waste time with an OB

     Treatment History 

    Medicated Cycle #1 (8/2013) 100mg Clomid , Stair-step to 150mg Clomid+ TI=  No Response
    Medicated Cycle #2, 3, 4 (9/13 10/13 11/13) 5mg Femara + TI + Ovidrel= BFN/No Response
    IUI #1 (1/14) 5mg Femara (CD3-CD7) + Follistim (50/100/150/200/250IU) = Over responded
    IUI #2 (3/14) 27 days of Follistim 50/75/100/150/200 (5 follies) + Lurpon+ IUI (12.5m motile) = BFN
    IVF #1 (11/14) Antagonist protocol - cancelled due to over response followed by a failed coast (plummeting e2's)
    Next Steps: Giving my doctor one more shot in January

    PAIF/SAIF/PGAL/PAL ALL WELCOME! 
    All the love to my Bump BFF Biblio! Stick little Hobbit!!!!

    Eff YOU Uterus: The Blog             image           Pinterest

    "Fuck twins, it's a litter of kittens."- WQ

    "Apparently, mine doesn't deserve luxury. I have an economy vag.- Bibliothecary

    "On the way down the banister of life may your ass collect a thousand splinters."- DarcyHermione

     

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