I know it is so early, and I could end up not having twins but....today I was talking with my mom about postpartum life. I am starting to get scared. My MIL is 77 and out of the question for help because in 6 weeks we are moving almost 30 mins away from her. She already gets exhausted after watching DS for an hour, so I can't really count on her. My mom still works part time and quite frankly, I think she really doesn't want to help play nanny when we get home with the babies. She was saying my aunt who has twins hired a daytime nurse and my grandmother would sleep over at nights for help. Am I really going to need this much help? I know its a long ways away but today really started to panic. Should we start saving money to hire someone to help? I am afraid DS might get neglected and I don't want that to happen!!
Sorry, this is a premature freak out, but I think the concept of twins is just now hitting....and I am panicking!