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CPW: Were you popular?

I'm in a clicky poll kind of mood, guys. And today is actually Wednesday. Hope you're game.
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  • I was the popular nerd. Definitely not the "typical" popular girl.

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  • Not to brag or anything... but you are all in the presence of royalty!  Wink I was the homecoming queen!  
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  • SS.

    I was invisible until grade 11, just a really tight group of amazing friends and unnoticed by everyone else.  Then I got a little more confident and I was friends with a lot of people by graduation. 

    I was fairly popular

  • You either loved me or hated me. I've always spoken my mind regardless of how well it went over. I went to a private all girls school and sometimes my personality would get me in trouble. I had no issues telling people they were full of it when the tim


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  • I guess I sort of was.  I was friends with and hung out with just about everybody.  I grew up in a fairly small school (graduating class of about 56 I believe it was) and was friends with people from all the different "cliques".  Not
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  • I was not popular in the traditional sense. But I wasn't a loner. I had many friends across many cliques.

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  • I was part of the stoner/goth/misfit crowd. Yup. But I was the oddball with preppier clothes most of the time.
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    BFP #4 5/13/11 | m/c 6/15/11 | 8 weeks 6 days
    BFP #5 2/13/13 | CP 2/19/13 | 4 weeks 
    BFP #6 3/21/14 | Heard the HB on 4/16 | m/c 4/21/14 | 9 weeks
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  • I didn't come out of my shell until college. l was fairly popular there, but I was also in the Honors dorm, so there was not much competition.  People in the Honors housing tended to be pretty shy and a little socially unaware.  There are except
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  • I am voting no because I certainly didn't feel popular in high school.  I moved to a new town in 9th grade and was pretty shy.  I became friends with people from all walks of high school life.  One randomly assigned lab partner became on

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  • 15 years later I am married to a former captain of the football team who was voted "Best All Around" in his high school yearbook. 

    I win!  (-:

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  • I was very shy and quiet, had my few friends and that was it.

     I was not into sports at school since I showed horses so I had a huge outside of school life on the weekends.  In school I was not popular but at the horse shows we all had

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  • I was looking back. I didn't realize or think about it at the time. I had tons of friends and got along with everyone. I have had the same main group of friends since I was in Junior High. The group got smaller over the years but my two best friends wh

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    I was not popular in the traditional sense. But I wasn't a loner. I had many friends across many cliques.
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  • Yes, we were the preppy group. I was sporty and feminine, but definitely prefered to hang out with the guys more toward the end of HS and through college. I could always be trusted, and did not partake in talking badly about others.

     

     

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  • I picked SS... I was pretty friendly with people from all the 'groups' but didn't necessarily belong to any one. So... I wasn't "unpopular" but I wouldn't say I was "popular" either. Also, my parents were super strict so I could never go to the f

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    I was part of the stoner/goth/misfit crowd. Yup. But I was the oddball with preppier clothes most of the time.
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  • I voted SS b/c I was involved in alot and had a lot of different friends, but I wasnt like homecoming queen or class favorite or anything, ya know?

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  • I also voted SS... I wasn't super popular in high school except within my own crowd. But I also went to a very small school so everyone sorta knew everyone. By college and after - I was the outgoing loveable, friendly jenek that you all now adore!
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  • *SS

    My high school was huge.  There were almost 2400 kids total.  I would say I was well-liked rather than popular.  I hung out with kids from swim team and cross country mostly. 

  • I was cool because I was a good athlete, but I was also smart and a good girl. So I had a lot of dates and friends but didn't run with the very popular, fast crowd.
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  • I wouldn't say I was popular to my class.  Maybe people recognized me.  I was popular as an athlete though.  And thankfully, that hard work paid off. 

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  • I think all the people who voted SS were actually popular. lol.

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    I voted SS. I wasn't part of the popular crowd, but in the middle. the popular kids knew me and the unpopular kids knew me.  I hung out in both crowds. small school though, 400 kids total grades 9-12.

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    I voted SS. High school is when a lot of my anxiety related problems really started happening, so I thought that everyone hated me, and withdrew quite a bit. I recently found a whole bunch of Christmas cards from these people who I thought hated me. I did
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  • I went with SSI was popular by association. Seemed like every BFF I had was popular so I would be included and accepted although I doubt many would've missed me if I didn't attend a party or sit at the "in" table. In college, I felt I had a much more real

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  • I voted SS. The short answer is: Not really. I wasn't unpopular in the sense that people openly disliked me, and I definitely wasn't a loner, but I ran with my own clique and was comfortable with that! Most of my friends were a couple grades above me,

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  • I don't think this is black and white at all, actually.  From a student's perspective, and from a teacher's. 

    At any rate, I was a very studious band/chorus/club geek.  In high school, I got along fine with those I'd consider

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