I hope this is the right place to post this.
First, I know most of you are probably not going to understand the whole situation or accept it, but it works for us, or at least it did until now. I understand this. That said I'm in one heck of bind.
My husband and I have an open marriage. Polyamorus to be correct. All parties involved are aware and everyone is ok with everything, there's no sneaking around no lying etc etc. Well my b/c script ran out on Feb. 7th and I was expecting AF to show up. She did on Feb. 10th. When I went to refill my b/c script on Feb. 12th the pharmacy informed me I had run out of refills and my old OB/Gyn wasn't allowing me to refill more without a Pap. No problem I had one scheduled with a new OB/Gyn on Feb. 21st. She wrote me a script and told me to fill it and start it after my next AF. Not a problem. Going 14 days ahead from the first day of AF my ovulation should of been Feb. 24th. DH had been using the pull out method (I'm allergic to latex and condom lubricant), and we had experienced no problems. However, my other partner (who's also been one of my best friends for 5 years) and I were intimate the 1st of March. He didn't pull out. I figured I was in the safe zone and AF was right around the corner, and ovulation long over and done.
WRONG. I picked up my new b/c script on March 12th with every intention of taking it once AF was over, whenever she decided to show up. Except one small problem. I took 2 HPT's and I'm pregnant. WTF! This means I got pregnant 19 days after first day of last AF. How is that even possible with a 28 days cycle????
Long story short Daddy to be is still trying to wrap his head around this, and understandably my DH's heart is broken. We already have an 18 mth old DS and we had only planned to have one more before DH went to get snipped.
Anyone have any advice on how to handle this clusterf!ck?