I felt really swollen "down there" one day and I had dh take a look and he was like "OH MY #$#@$!!" He said it was all swollen and a weird purple color and that the lips were kind of spread apart from being swollen. So then of course I had to get the mirror, and it was NOT a pretty sight. We have not had sex since then.... a few weeks ago... because I feel hideous and gross as well. Is this something that happens to everyone!?!?! I feel bad for my doctor for having to look!