DS will be 21 months when our new bean will be born.... I am already feeling so exhausted and so far behind in all the house work etc (I know from feeling sick and 1st tri exhaustion). I start to think that once LO is born it won't be much different. If we decide to have a 3rd like we org planned, we also want them close in age....(I turn 35 in July and don't want to wait between kids for long at all due to heightened risks) but now when I think about it, I get scared I will NEVER get things under wraps and I will be so overwhelmed and limited with 3 so young. (my neighbor was done at 2 and had an oopsie.... she is always stressed, depressed, and in a bad mood) I never want to be at that point. Did you change your game plan after #2 came?